Self Esteem Improvement for People Emotionally
Affected by Acne
If acne
affects you emotionally, and you do not work towards self esteem
improvement, you risk seriously damaging your psychological
well-being, even if it doesn't hurt your general heath or your
overall well being.
Building a healthy self-esteem is very important, but
many people are still misinformed about the many myths
about acne, especially regarding diet and hygiene.
Many parents and older siblings are stuck in the attitude of past
generations that nothing can really be done but to let acne run its
course.
Making matters worse, there is confusion among people with acne
and their families about what works and what doesn't. They are often
frustrated by products that promise to clear skin but that don't
work for them.
As a result, acne has gone on to affect more than just a person’s
physical
appearance, and brought about damage to a person’s self esteem
as well. The task of improving low self esteem has thus become more
difficult.
Recent studies have detected the following as common among people
with acne:
• Social withdrawal
• Decreased self-esteem
• Reduced
self-confidence
• Poor body image
• Embarrassment
•
Feelings of depression
• Anger
• Preoccupation
•
Frustration
• Higher rate of unemployment
The effects listed above are often interrelated, with one effect
leading to another and another, only to make the first effect worse.
These negative psychosocial effects can have a crippling impact,
discouraging patients from pursuing life's opportunities--socially,
on the job, or at school.
"There is no single disease which causes more psychic
trauma, more maladjustment between parents and children, more
general insecurity and feelings of inferiority and greater sums of
psychic suffering than does acne vulgaris." -- Sulzberger
& Zaldems, 1948
That's why self esteem improvement is very important
in dealing with emotional trauma as a result of acne.
The truth of the matter is, acne affects us at an emotional level
only as much as we allow it to. While most people with acne are
concerned about their appearance and how other people look at them,
they don’t realize that these “other people” don’t really care in
the first place!
Of course, this doesn’t mean that we should leave acne alone and
forget about it altogether. What I’m saying is that improving low
self esteem is simply a matter of understanding that it is not our
fault that we get acne, and acne can happen to anybody.
What we can do is to understand that our personal
standards and values are not completely dependent on the approval of
others, and then take appropriate
steps to resolve our acne problems, and actively engage in self
esteem improvement measures.
Once we shift our focus from the problem, to the solution, we
won’t be so affected emotionally, and self esteem improvement kicks
in.
If you know you are doing everything in your power to take care
of your acne, give yourself a break! Give your self esteem a pat on
the back since you're doing the best you can to get through this.
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